Confirmation Bias
Those who have less of this are wise
Simply put, it's a function that evolved to fake having high sociability as a shortcut
Rationalization is dangerous
the more I can invent elaborate theories to support conclusions I already believe
Confirmation bias
Confirmation bias (also confirmatory bias, myside bias,[a] or congeniality bias[2]) is the tendency to search for, interpret, favor, and recall information in a way that confirms or supports one's prior beliefs or values.[3] People display this bias when they select information that supports their views, ignoring contrary information, or when they interpret ambiguous evidence as supporting their existing attitudes. The effect is strongest for desired outcomes, for emotionally charged issues, and for deeply entrenched beliefs.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Confirmation_bias

Seonglae Cho