The modern human brain has changed very little from the brain adapted to the Pleistocene environment, meaning that even if certain behaviors are common in society, evolved behaviors do not necessarily represent correct behaviors or those optimized for the current era.
Thoughts, desires, or visions of fundamental goals that cannot be explained by evolutionary theory are not truly fundamental, and if you believe they are, you're deceiving yourself. You simply want more attention, to appear more attractive, to be more popular, or to survive. Anything beyond that is an illusion, and when you truly accept this, you can more accurately understand the behavior of others and yourself.
Evolutionary psychology
Evolutionary psychology is a theoretical approach in psychology that examines cognition and behavior from a modern evolutionary perspective. It seeks to identify human psychological adaptations with regard to the ancestral problems they evolved to solve. In this framework, psychological traits and mechanisms are either functional products of natural and sexual selection or non-adaptive by-products of other adaptive traits.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Evolutionary_psychology

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