A person who tries again is not someone who failed, but someone who Regrets
It's natural that those with more opportunities tend to have more regrets. However, as a way to cope with negative emotions about choices, gaining the wisdom that you'll regret any choice you make is valuable. Not having any regrets at all would indicate sociopathic tendencies or brain issues. But knowing how to deal with regret and grow from it is important. If the regret involves a judgment that would have required knowledge of the future, there's no need to dwell on it. Otherwise, determine whether it was not the optimal decision based on the information available at the time, or if you simply didn't try your best. Feeling wistful is sufficient for acknowledging that you couldn't fully enjoy something good.
The cumulated performance difference of past decision compared to the optimal choice.
Regret Notion
Regrets
Flowers do not regret as they fall
What’s happened, happened
Self Criticism
[미라클레터] 우리 인간은 네가지 종류의 후회를 한다
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[DBR] 벚꽃은 지면서 후회하지 않는다
친구 하나가 인생의 지혜로 삼을 만하다면서 들려준 얘기가 있다. "갈까 말까 할 때는 가라. 줄까 말까 할 때는 줘라. 살까 말까 할 때는 사지 마라. 먹을까 말까 할 때는 먹지 마라. 말할까 말까 할 때는 고마워, 미안해 하는 말 외에는 하지 마라"는 것이다. 인생을 살아가면서 후회하지 않고 살아갈 수 있는 교훈으로 삼기에 좋은 내용이다.
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