Seong-lae ChoMotive is Emotion itself
성장 동기의 근원은 결핍이다
나에게 역경이 될정도지만 이길수 있는 Environment 을 만들고 꾸준히 어제보다 나아지는 내가 되는 것이다. 삶의 과정 중간중간의 성취 행위들로 인해 Dopamine system 즉 좋은 보상 체계를 만들어서 나를 끌고 갈 수 있다. 다시말해 스스로 목표를 위한 보상체계를 설계해나가는 것이 Planning에 중요하다. 과식, 자위, 게임, 도박을 멀리하고 스스로 미션을 부여하며 작은 성공에서 성취감을 느껴보면서 무엇이 의미인지 의미부여해가며 본인 삶의 보상체계를 설계할 수 있다.
Ideally, the motive is to become a landscape rather than the person in front
- The social motive is strong - not to be ignored, want to be recognized
- The greatest external motivation is when someone around recognizes you as a special person, and you need to surround yourself with such people for personal growth.
A crisis is something that doesn't change even when we don't want it and do something about it, but the bigger crisis is knowing and staying the same. The current growing pains are natural. What will eventually be helpful is ego, self-esteem, and confidence.
Motive Notion
- I want to stand out among people.
- I want to have hope for the future.
- I want to feel the mood of wellbeing.
- I want to feel free.
- I want to feel the thrill.
- I want to feel a sense of belonging.
- I want to protect my surrounding environment.
- I want to become the person I want to be.
- I want to feel safe.
- I want to succeed in life.
If you need inspiring words, don't do it - Elon Musk
how to maintain the motivation
Balance Passion and Practicality, Surround Yourself with Like-minded People
