Seong-lae ChoSpeaking
Fundamental: Having extensive knowledge helps ensure conversation flows smoothly without interruptions.
Exchanging Knowledge
The absolute amount of knowledge, experiential repetition, logical thinking, and intention are more important in conversation.
- Don't suddenly change conversation topics; if you've diverted, bring it back to the original subject
- When the other person jumps between topics, clearly state what needs to be said based on the conversation's purpose
- Never use the approach of "I'm right and you're wrong"
- Don't criticize everything; if criticized, either demonstrate through actions or ignore it
Conversation is an exchange of life experiences, so knowing each other's life stories helps and forms the structure of storytelling. To become closer, converse in ways that reveal your personality and ask questions that allow the other person to express their character.
Basics
- Don't interrupt
- Speak differently, even if it's just one word
- Use non-verbal communication
- Make the other person think
- Remember the purpose of the conversation
Talks
Talk Methods
Talk Components
네가 말을 할 때에는, 그것이 침묵보다 나은 것이어야 한다
그자리 없는 사람이나 사회 시스템 욕하고 연예인 가쉽거리 얘기하는 모임은 자신들의 이야기가 없기 때문. 건강한 모임은 우리 이야기 하는데도 시간이 없다
